An old elderly neighbor couple passed away and the daughter gave us loads of their belongings (most of which were sold last weekend at a yard sale). She said we could sell or keep whatever we wanted. Here are a few interesting things among them:

This bag says Christian Dior -- but I can't find anything to authenticate it -- I've submitted it to a purse forum for some help... it is definitely old -- but who knows!

Then these toy boxers are interesting. They are probably from the 60s? They are similar to the Rock'Em Sock'Em Robots, but very different too -- as they are real people. I can't find a manufacturer or anything on them. I've been researching them w/ out much luck.This is the other thing she gave us...

9 bottles of old old whiskey and bourbon. This stuff is ancient.

A not-so-serious conversation

On the way home from small group last night I was listening to a worship CD from our church. The song was Jesus Paid It All. The line came: Praise the one who paid my debt and raised this life up from the dead. Kaiya asked me what debt was and why I was singing about it.

I'm thinking -- perfect opportunity to plant a few little seeds in her heart. So I start explaining to her that a debt is something that you owe someone. And I went on to say:

Me: You know how you learned that we all sin sometimes?

Kaiya: Uh mama. I need to tell you something. Remember that time that I rode my bike in the driveway?

Me: Yeah.

Kaiya: That was fun.

Me: You're right. That was fun.

Ahhh... maybe another time. :) Such a brief little window of opportunity and then her little 4 year old mind goes in a completely different direction. I had to smile to myself.

I wonder what God thinks of my 28 year old mind. Sometimes, my spiritual attention span isn't all that much better.

The Bradford Store

A few weeks ago (nearly a month now!) we went with friends up to The Bradford Store in Huntersville. It is a neat little family owned farm and store that has a variety of organic produce, milk, cheeses and grass-fed beef. We picked out some goodies to purchase and then roamed around the farm a little bit. The kids loved looking at the chickens.

Spookeo

I'm not a major conspiracy theorist or anything (although watching 24 has made me a little curious as to how much goes on behind the scenes in our country).

But I saw this website posted and had to check it out for my self. www.spokeo.com You put in your first & last name and it tells you lots of interesting stuff about you. It new that I like listening to Christian music. :) And it new that my mother-in-law is a nurse and that she has a swimming pool. And that we had kids. And that 4 people live in my house. Weird.

Check yourself out. :)

You can remove yourself too. You have to pull up your profile, copy the url address for your specific profile, and then click on the Privacy link at the bottom. It has instructions from there.

Red Robin

Thanks to Nannie for a night on the town with the kids! We had strict orders to take the kids to Red Robin for dinner a few weeks ago. It's hands-down the kids favorite place to eat. Here are a few pictures from the night.




He was covered in macaroni & cheese. And loved every minute of it. Thanks Nannie!

Sometimes it sucks.

Kaleb's reaction when he realized it wasn't his birthday we were celebrating...

Wordless Wednesday - Badger Hat

Photos by Ruthie

Wurkin'

Last week when I went to get Kaleb up in the morning he stood up in his crib and said: Wurkin' and shook his head. I asked him again what he said and he repeats: Wurkin' nose. And it dawned on me. He was telling me that his nose was not working. A little stuffy in the morning, I guess. :)

Imagination at work!

Save-a-Lot Grand Opening

I had the opportunity to attend the Grand Opening of Save-A-Lot here in Charlotte, NC. I received the invitation to attend the event with other local bloggers -- and if I'm being honest, I had to run the invitation past this fantastic blogger to make sure it was legit. :) Sure enough -- they found my blog -- probably because I post pretty frequently about saving money. It is something I really love. And that's really the hallmark of Save-A-Lot Stores -- they have figured out a way to put quality in the hands of the consumer and save them 40-60% off their normal grocery bill.

Save-A-Lot is headquartered in St. Louis -- a familiar place for me! It was great to meet several employees from headquarters at the event. I was impressed with the donations that Save-A-Lot made to local food banks -- $25,000 in gift cards was given to North Carolina organizations that fight hunger. I love that they not only donated to the Second Harvest Food Bank of Metrolina (very big in Charlotte), but also some smaller town churches that operate food pantries.

I was able to try a variety of the fresh produce and my kids are loving the box of Cheerios from Save-A-Lot. I was so glad I attended the event! It was also a great opportunity to meet some professional bloggers (I felt so amateur compared to the crowd I was with!). One of the ladies writes for Paula Deen. Another's husband does this for fun! I had a great time chatting and learning more about how these ladies took blogging to another level.

Even more exciting... for the North Carolina readers... here is a coupon for $5 off at Save-A-Lot! So start saving money!

No Nap = Tired = Sassy

I always have high hopes for the days I am off work. The kids have missed me all week -- in fact, the other morning Kaleb chucked a spoonful of oatmeal across the room when I told him I had to get ready for work. So you would think that they would be perfect angels, enjoying every wonderful moment of our time together. Negative. It was a terrible day. Kaleb cried incessantly from about 1:30 p.m. - 6:45 p.m. Kaiya did not nap and negotiated for an early bedtime instead of trying to nap. Not surprisingly, our evening ended with her being smart-mouthed with Tony and I. As I was tucking her into bed the conversation went like this:

Me: Why were you having such ugly words tonight?
Kaiya: Is because... I am sassy.
Me: Why were you being sassy tonight?
Kaiya: Is because... I am tired... and sleepy... and just a bit sassy.

At least she gets it. And I was quite proud of myself. I didn't even crack a smile when the "sassy" word came out of her mouth in that cute little ornery voice.

Weekend Videos

Easy post this weekend with some videos of the kids. I need to do something about my broken digital camera, but for now -- short videos will have to do. Here is one of each of the kiddos. Nothing too exciting, but entertainment for far away family.

A few thoughts on anxiety

We all have issues. One of mine happens to be anxiety. I worry, fret, pull my hair out, freak out over things that I can't control. It possibly categorizes me as a control freak as well, but saying I have a bit of anxiety just sounds better.

One of the most helpful tools that I have used to deal with the anxiety is by remembering that I have the choice of what to do with the anxious thoughts when they begin to creep in. I can choose to allow the anxiety to brood, or I can choose to replace the anxious thoughts with God's promises. A few months ago, our church did a series called Give Me Faith. During that series we were given a list of Faith Confessions.

I have these on my fridge and on my desk at work. When I feel it creeping up, I immediately start speaking these and replacing the anxious thoughts with thoughts that I know to be true. A few of them I have memorized in case I'm away from the list.

Here they are:

• I am fully forgiven and free from all shame and condemnation.
• I act in audacious faith to change the world for my generation.
• I have no fear or anxiety; I trust in the Lord with all my heart.
• I am able to fulfill the calling God has placed on my life.
• I am fully funded to do everything God has called me to do.
• I have no insecurity because I see myself the way God sees me.
• I am a faithful spouse and a godly parent; our family is blessed.
• I am completely whole physically, mental and emotionally.
• I am increasing in influence and favor for the kingdom of God.
• I am enabled to walk in the sacrificial love of Christ.
• I have the wisdom of the Lord concerning every decision I make.
• I am protected from all harm and evil in Jesus' name.

Just in case you were wondering... it is quite possible to pull your tongue muscle while eating peanut butter off a spoon.

Oops...I sure tried.

Well... currently tanking in the area of resolutions, but I am getting back on track. I have been blogging like crazy for our office at: yourhealingdiet.wordpress.com. And as a result neglected this blog a bit. My other excuse is that my digital camera has been acting up. And I'm not allowed to bring the office digital camera home anymore. :) I might have broken it once. Thank goodness we still had a warranty on it.

I do have a snazzy little "faux" Flip camera that takes videos. Got one of the kids playing in the snow today. We had a few inches last night! And this afternoon, half of it was gone. But we got out to the side of the house where the sun doesn't shine and got a little playing done. Here's the video. Mainly for family who misses these cute kids. The rest of the world probably won't be too interested.

New Thru 30

We've been reading the New Testament in 30 days with our church. I experienced one of the coolest moments in parenthood this week. I was sitting on the floor Wednesday night before putting the kids to bed reading my Bible. Kaiya runs to get her Bible and sits down next to me. She sits just like me and opens her Bible. My dad asked her what she was doing and she said: I'm reading my Bible just like Mama.

She sat with me the whole time flipping through her Bible while I finished my reading for the day. It was a good reminder that these are the things I want her to see. I'm modeling for her every minute of the day. I hope she sees more good than bad.

Can't forget it!

Kaiya has been coming up with some cute ones lately. So bear with my record-keeping posting. This is my journal/scrapbook for the time being.

I was heading both kids upstairs for bed and when we got to the top of the stairs Kaiya says: Mama, can I have H.L.P.E?

Me: What?

Kaiya: You know, H.L.P.E. (change to whisper) That means popcorn!

She was trying to spell since Kaleb was listening.

Hmmm... She's figured out one of the biggest tools of parenting. She'll have it mastered once she can actually spell. :)

Kaiya-ism

Kaiya said something I don't want to forget. Went like this:

My mom: Kaiya, did mommy & daddy get a new patient at the office this morning?

Kaiya: I don't know, I'm just a child!

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She's also been calling me "Honey" a lot lately. In a really endearing, sweet way. She knows it is a term of endearment and is using it totally correctly, it is just so funny to hear her calling me that.

Groupon

We were given information on Groupon, as a marketing tool for our office. I checked it out and it's actually a really great concept. We're pursuing it for the office, but being the bargain shopper I am, I decided to subscribe to the deal e-mails as well.

The way it works is this: Each day they post a deal online for something in your city. If enough people are interested and take the deal, everyone gets it. So today, a spa was featured in my city. $25 gets you a $50 certificate at the spa. When you buy the deal, you do an online purchase with your credit card. The card is not run unless enough people sign up for the deal. Enough sign up, the card is run and you get a certificate e-mailed to you.

Kind of an interesting concept. I was impressed. And... thought you might be too. We all could use a deal! Here's the link: http://www.groupon.com/r/uu824688.

The link is unique to me -- they give Groupon bucks for referrals. So... go get your Groupon! :)

P.S. Just in case anyone is wondering... I have changed the litter box every other day since my resolution post. Not too bad, right?

Wordless Wednesday - Bringing Sexy Back

New Year's Resolutions

I NEVER do this. The idea of setting myself up for failure does not appeal to me in the slightest. But... I'm aware that a mindset like that is not going to get me anywhere either. So, for the first year in my life I am going to make a few resolutions. And document them for the blogosphere to see.

-Remember our patients' birthdays. I have a whiteboard that is going up and weekly I am going to put birthdays on it.

-Establish an end-of-day procedure list and do it. Almost every day. (Gotta give myself a little slack.)

-New Thru 30. Our church is reading the New Testament in 30 days. I'm gonna do it too. While this resolution is only for 30 days, I'm hoping the habit will stick and I'll establish daily routine of reading.

-I so badly want to make a resolution about cleaning but I'm scared to. Hmm... So I'm sort of going to make one. I want to clean out the litter box every other day. I know some people clean theirs daily. I really want to, but trust me, every other day will be an improvement. Once upon a time I was determined to potty train my cat cause I saw this book said it was possible. Wish I had been more successful at that. :)

-Last but not least -- get back into blogging! Not gonna let more than a week go in between posts.

Gotta be grateful

It dawned on Kaiya the other day that we do not have a chimney (gasp!). We told her that we would leave the door open for Santa. That seemed to be okay with her. Then a conversation with Kaiya in the car yesterday went something like this:

Kaiya: Mama, I see a lot of houses with chimneys!
Me: A lot of these houses do have chimneys.
Kaiya: Yeah, but you just have to be grateful for what you got on top.
Me: Giggle. That's right Kaiya.
Kaiya: Yep, just gotta be grateful.

Sounds like she is listening to us occasionally afterall. :) And I was glad I remembered Tony's mom has a fireplace and chimney. We had to call Nannie right away and make sure Santa would be able to use her chimney. Nannie assured Kaiya that she was going to clean the chimney out.

da Grinch

This is Kaiya, 3 years ago with the Grinch. Kaleb is terrified of this particular Grinch. We've had to keep it up in Kaiya's closet because it brings him to tears just seeing it. But the kids watched it on TV the other night and really liked it. So it has come down from the closet for a little while. Kaleb still starts backing up and saying, "no, no, no..." whenever he sees it. Kaiya's been sleeping with it this week.

Last night her bedtime prayer went like this: "Dear God, Help da Grinch not to do naughty things tonight. Like take our tree down and put it on the sleigh that he made. And keep me awake. In Jesus name, Amen."

Found a couple cute pictures of my kids on their Uncle Aaron's facebook page. The pictures are from earlier this summer and especially Kaleb has changed, but fun for a Monday post!

Mmmm... those eyes.

A Rarity

The Wednesday before Thanksgiving I was able to spend the afternoon and evening with one of my best friends! Her parents live in Raleigh (about 4 hrs away) and so we met halfway and spent 6 hours together. It had been a year since I'd seen her and one of the first times that I was kid-free doing what I wanted to be doing (i.e. not working). Ahhhh... it was wonderful. Catching up, shopping, eating. Here is our token picture in Old Navy. The cashier probably thought we were nuts, but I looked in my purse, saw my camera and had to take it before the day went by and I had forgotten.

Thanks B for a great day!

Haircuts!

It was time for haircuts in November! Both kids cooperated extremely well for me. I let them choose what show they would watch and I worked as quickly as I could.

Mmmm Candy...

After trick-or-treating we let the kids pick out two things to eat. Kaleb, having no idea what candy really is, picked out Swedish Fish for one of his choices. And I don't think he realized how long it takes to chew one of those fish. He just kept shoveling them in his mouth. It was almost as if he thought we might suddenly realize it was candy and take it away.

The drool was running down his arm.

Costumes

This kids were so cute. Of course... slightly biased, but seriously. Kaiya was kind of forced into being Pooh. A couple weeks ago she told me that she really wanted to be Ariel - The Little Mermaid, but I told her that it would have to wait until next year. I had gotten Kaleb's costume a year ago June at a yard sale and since he was the Honey Pot, I really wanted her to be Pooh. Dream crusher that I am. And actually... she looks quite sad in this picture below. But I promise -- she warmed up to the idea after I found her costume at a yard sale this summer.

I wanted to give her a black nose. Well, Kaleb saw that and just had to have one too. I gave him freckles instead. Of course Kaiya saw that and had to have freckles too. At which point he remembered that I never gave him a nose. So they are both freckled and nosed. :)

Tuckered out. It rained for about 20 minutes while we were out. The kid insisted on walking by himself, carrying his own bag without any help. It was pretty cute. But he was spent.

Pumpkins!

On Halloween morning we went to a fall festival in the neighborhood. The kids got their faces painted. Kaleb happened to get the 11 year old aspiring face painter... she tried. :) We came home, grabbed lunch and then started carving. The kids helped pull all of the seeds out. Kaiya wasn't a fan. Kaleb thought it was awesome.
After the pumpkins were scraped out I put the kids down for naps and got started. There were special requests this year -- Elmo & Ariel. Thankfully I managed to pull it off. For the record, I got a blister scraping the outsides of these... the best tool I had was a lemon zester. Yeah. It was awesome.

More wedding...

More pictures from the wedding!
She was a dancin' fool.
Kaiya & Uncle Brent

Awww...

Dear Aunt Ruthie & Uncle Chris: Thanks for having our favorite food at your reception. We LOVE breakfast food and our parents actually let us eat most breakfast foods. :) Eggs are the best! And we even got to eat fresh fruit instead of cake. A-mazing!

Wordless Wednesday

Kaiya at the beach

Kaiya had a blast at the beach too! Her favorite things were getting buried in the sand (and burying Papa),

building and decorating sand castles,

throwing seaweed at Uncle Brent,

and swimming next to 4-5 dolphins! Papa was holding her out in the deeper water (waist high on Papa) and a huge group of dolphins came within 3-4 feet of them. When we came down in June she saw dolphins from the shore. On our car ride down to Florida this time she said, "I really hope I see dolphins this time!" So cool that she really saw them this time!

Wish I could tell you that I took a whole month off of blogging on purpose. But nope. I didn't. It just sort of happened. :) Got my camera connected to the computer here, so I can share some pics from our trip to Florida for Ruthie's wedding. We had such a great time!

Here are the pictures of the beach time that we had. Ruthie was super organized so most of our time was spent relaxing before and after the wedding. There wasn't too many last minute things to take care of. Well... except for maybe the bouquet. But I couldn't really do that too far in advance. I'll have to post a link to the picture of it. Cause it turned out pretty good for only having half an idea of what I was doing. Oh the trust she had in Bekah & I. :)



A little sequence of Kaleb pictures. He was being a stinker and didn't want to smile for me.

























Eventually I got one out of him...


Kaleb had so much fun at the beach. Glad I had so many eyes watching him, because at one point I looked up and saw this (and I am at least a half zoom on my camera):

Kaiya will get her post tomorrow! I'm determined to get back on the blogging routine. I've gotta have something to document the kids' lives! I'm too busy otherwise and it's all gonna just slip by. :)

One of "those" mornings...

You ever have one of the those mornings? I don't mean the straight out disaster kind... I'm talking about the kind of morning that appears to be going perfectly and then out of nowhere... everything turns upside down. The catch-you-by-surprise kind of morning. That was yesterday.

Kids let us sleep in 15 minutes late. Everyone is in a joyful mood. No squabbling over what to wear or how to do our hair. No complaints about breakfast. It is looking like we are going to be 2 minutes early for church today. And that, my friends, is a major accomplishment. You see, we have no problem getting to church right on time. But then we have to check the kids in. Take them to their rooms. And then head into the service. So essentially, we are usually 10 minutes late for the service. But today... we are looking good.

I grab my Bible (another accomplishment because this is usually forgotten) and my purse. Both kids are walking out the door. We get to the car and it is locked so I reach down for my keys and they are not in my purse. I hear Tony unlocking his car from inside the house. I hustle to the porch to let him know that I don't have my keys. He has already shut the door. I tell him that I don't have my car keys and he says, "Where is your house key?" Umm... on the same key ring as my car key. And we are now locked out of the house.

He's annoyed. I'm annoyed. The kids are oblivious. My mom was trying out a new church this morning, but had to stop at Elevation before going. I try calling her and get voicemail. All 15 attempts to call her. Great... she might be home around 1 p.m. It's 8:29 a.m. We try all the doors and windows. Nothing. Tony gets in his car and sits to think. Kaleb comes over and starts pushing buttons on Tony's car. He got two warnings to stop and just as he went for a third try, Kaleb sets off the car alarm. Lovely. Now our neighbors are going to egg the house. Horns blaring at 8:30 on a Sunday morning. Apparently the alarm repeats the cycle until properly shut off. We can't properly shut it off because #1 - we have no idea how. #2 - even if we did, Tony's key was locked inside the house. Tony decides that he will walk to Elevation and hopefully catch my mom before she goes to the other church. The kids and I start playing on the porch.

I decided to check the tool box for small objects that I could break into our house with. They make it look so easy on Ocean's Eleven. I attempted with a small drill bit, but couldn't make any progress. I muttered something about just wanting to kick the door in. (Don't worry Tim (house owner) -- my good sense came back before I tried it.) I gave up breaking into the house and started praying that my mom would get the voicemail I left her.

About 10 minutes later I see my mom pull up. Hallelujah! She happened to check her phone, in the middle of the service, see the missed calls from me and come home to rescue us. I picked up Tony and we put together our second attempt to get to church. Thankfully, there are multiple service times... so we ate our traditional Sunday morning brunch before going to church, instead of the normal after church brunch.

I think this is where I'm supposed to excitedly announce that we made it to the 10 a.m. service on time. Well... we made it to the parking lot on time. There's always next week!

Do I say this every post?

I feel like every post I say... gosh, it's been awhile since I posted. Unfortunately, it is true every time. :) Am I burnt out? Out of good material? My second child is totally getting jipped. Cause I was such a faithful and consistent blogger with Kaiya.

Here's a little fun for your Friday. Actually... not sure if you will think it is funny unless you attend Elevation, our church. But these two are a drummer and keyboard player at church and they entertain us each week as they really get into performing. Last Sunday was a Student Takeover week so they made this video for church on Sunday. I think the students thought it was as cool as us adults did. :)

"Tippity Top" Music Video from Elevation Church on Vimeo.

Overheard from the Kitchen

Last night the kids and Tony were playing in the living room while I did some things in the kitchen. Tony had to tell Kaleb to settle down and after he finished I heard Kaiya say to Tony: "You are not the mommy!" (wonder if she has heard that before?)

She then turned to Kaleb and started bossing him around herself. In which case, Tony pointed out the same to her.

Geesh! Guess the mommy holds some power in this house! :)

Wow guys... not much energy going into the blog lately. I've really missed the consistency of posting frequently. Gonna have to get inspired soon. :) I've been working a little on generating content for the office website. It's a work in progress with several more elements coming, including my own little page, where I will be posting healthy recipes and tips. Should be fun. Keep in mind it is very rough right now... but you can check it out: www.providencefamilychiro.com

Have a great weekend!

Kaiya saw me light the grill. She didn't come back outside until I was ready to take the chicken off the grill. When I opened it up, she exclaimed: Mama! I didn't know that fire turns into chicken! She was utterly amazed. And it was just too cute to correct.

Tony's cousin, Becca, watched the kids at the mall play area yesterday while I promoted our Extreme Makeover Event from the mall booth. Kaiya and Kaleb both enjoyed playing and Kaiya made some friends while she was there. She had been playing with two Hispanic girls and at one point ran over to Becca and said, "I am calling them Indians and I am the Sailor." She had just watched Pocahontas that morning. Nice. Disney is teaching my child about different skin colors. I think it is time to intervene.

Need some help!

Doing some research for our Extreme Makeover Event on Saturday. Here's what I need... leave me a comment with 5 things that are on your grocery list each week (or however often you shop). I need these to be items other than staples (i.e. bread, milk, eggs, meat, fresh produce).

Gonna post this on Facebook too...we'll see what we come up with!

Some good reading!

I came across this article today and thought I would post a link here. Dr. Josh Axe is a Maximized Living Doctor in Nashville. It's so hard these days to sift through marketing terms on labels. He breaks it down:

Natural Doesn't Always Mean Non-Toxic

Don't wanna forget these ones...

Kaiya's had a few gems lately:

To her babysitter while we were at work: "I've got to get out of this house."

To me at the end of a night where she had passed an unusual amount of gas: "I can't help my toots mom."

To Tony & I: "How does a baby get out of its mama's tummy?" We pause and look at each other because we're not sure how much to disclose. While thinking about what to say, she says: "Does it come out of her ring?" I assume this has something to do with the conversation we have had about being married before having a baby. And we decide at this point that she must be told the truth. Cause this is a child who will keep on asking. The last time we tried to gloss over something she looked at Tony and said, "You've got to be kidding me. You are joking." So we told her. She said, "Oh. That's silly." And that was the end of the conversation. Thankfully.

Summer Lull

I've got the summer lull, I guess. Extreme lack of posting going on here. We are living & breathing the office right now. Complete craziness.

For now, check this out: ruthephotography.blogspot.com. Some really cute kids made the header. And check out her other pictures... I'm so proud of her - it's natural talent!

Actually... let's make this post all about Ruthie! Wedding countdown is: less than 2 months! Kaiya is going to be a flower girl and I found her dress at Burlington Coat Factory for $12.99! The lighting in these pictures is terrible and makes the dress look yellow... but it is a very light ivory. I was super excited about this deal -- it was missing the sweater that went with it, so the sales associate offered to take $5.00 off the already low price.