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Pictures of Pure Joy

Birthday Dinner - per Kaiya's request:
Egg Scramble & Pancakes

And some little fairies came and made her pancakes little hearts!

I love this - total shy look when we were singing to her.

Flowers from NannieLovin' the fruit!

One happy little girl! Thanks for all the presents!!

Calling all book worms!

Time for everybody out there to get talking again! :) I'm ready to get my nose back into a good book. I've requested the books in the Twilight series from the library, but literally... I'm number 87 in line to get the first book. I need some suggestions!

Here's just a little video I took the other day. At the end of it, I ask Kaiya about the Lion King and she gives a little commentary about it. It's a long video though. :) Just trying to keep the grandparents happy.

Lion King Parenting

So... Kaiya had a timeout today for being disobedient. After every timeout, we talk about why she was placed in timeout, what she could have done differently, etc. Today after she recounted a play-by-play of what got her in the timeout, I said: "Yes, Kaiya. The bottom line is that you were disobedient."

She quickly begins nodding her head and says: "Here's da deal mama. On Lion King, Simba no not obey his fawdder. He no not obey and go to the hyenas. But Mufasa say no Simba and Simba no not obey Mufasa. And Simba get in trouble for dat."

At least she is making the connection. Clearly... she understands the concept of disobedience.

Out of the mouth of babes

An American Girl catalog came in the mail today and I gave it to Kaiya to look at. I have no idea how we made it on the mailing list and she has no idea what American Girl dolls are. However... the catalog is fun to look at. So she is browsing through it and comes to the page with this doll on it:
and says in a sing-songy voice: Oooooo.... Sexy Lady. I did a double take! Did she just say, Sexy Lady? She repeats the phrase several times. Yep. When she prances around in her pretend high heels or dances in her dress, that is what Tony and I say to her. Oops. We'll be changing that to something like: Hot Stuff. Sexy Lady has been eliminated from our vocabulary until Kaiya is old enough that I don't have to explain to her what "sexy" is.

The next question is -- why of all the dolls does she declare this one as sexy lady?

2nd Trip up the Mountain

Pinnacle Peak take two. We did it again and it was just as hard the second time. We had the kids in packs on our backs and it was a more even sort of weight distribution, but geesh... still a climb. Here is the hike in pictures.

Poor Kaiya had to christen the top of the mountain. Her first outdoor potty experience. Her description: "I go potty on the mountain! Dat was silly!"

Weekend Recap

It was a great weekend. On Thursday, my friend Connie came for a visit. For Valentine's Day this year, she got a ticket to come out and see me. I'm hereby nominating her husband Tyson for the Husband of the Year award. He watched all 5 kids this weekend, gave her spending money for the trip for some splurges and let her come see us!

I'll be posting some pictures... but the quick recap is that we climbed Pinnacle Peak again on a beautiful 65 degree day. Later that same day, I was introduced to Zumba class. I survived - and it was fun! We worked in the office on Friday, made some hairbows, watched Newsies (how's that for a throwback to our childhood?). Got pedicures at a day spa, went to IKEA (her first time), experienced Elevation Church. It was lots of fun.

She got out just in time. We got our third snow of the year! Very unusual for this area to get even one snow during winter. So this is a treat.

Now it's Monday - back to reality. We decided to do Lent this year. This is my first time and just a few days into it, I know it is going to be a great thing. For where I'm at spiritually, I knew I needed to both "put off" something, and "put on" something. I am putting off my laziness in the mornings. Normally I wait for my kids to wake me up and then we frantically get ready to go out the door. For the next 30-some days (and hopefully this habit will stick much longer) I am giving up my laziness. The alarm clock is getting set early, giving me enough time to work out and read by Bible before the kids get up. And that leads to what I am putting on. Daily Bible reading. I've been really sloppy about reading God's Word and it is long overdue for me to get back into it on a daily basis.

The best part is that Tony is joining me in this - and we're doing it together. Great for accountability and it's much easier to get up when he's getting up too. I was blessed by reading about some friends in India who are doing Lent, and the sweet boys who are finding things to give up when they have very little to begin with. Here are the links so you can see their stories - I know you will be blessed by them as well:

Amanda Lehman
The Reichanadters

Pinnacle Peak

When my sisters were here earlier in February, they wanted to be active and get out and do something. So... I jumped online and found the closest mountains to Charlotte. We headed out to Crowder Mountain State Park to get some pictures taken. It was a beautiful, blue-sky day and the temperatures were in the 50s.
When we arrived at the park office to get maps and decide what hike we would be doing, I took some time to speak with one of the rangers and get his advice. Since we had the kids with us, he suggested the Fern trail. A small little trail that circled the picnic areas. I'm thinking... boring. So for "future hikes" I asked him about the tallest peak in the park. He described the hike to Pinnacle Peak as being strenuous, but he marked on the map that the hike didn't actually become strenuous until 2/3 of the way through. So I convinced the girls that we should give it a try. Shoot. If it became too difficult, we could always turn around! The total mileage for the hike was 1.7 miles and it was said to take 2 - 2.5 hours. And off we went...

Showing Kaiya how cool it is to wear a hat. It worked... Kaiya was soon begging to wear her hat after Aunt Bekah modeled it for her.

Apparently Ruthie didn't get the memo that we would be climbing the mountain and she wore slippers. She says they aren't slippers... you know the shoes I mean... Ugg-Like shoes that are open-backed, slip-ons. Like these:

It was interesting to say the least. As we climbed up, Ruthie had to work really hard at keeping the shoes on her feet. She had to curl her toes to keep them on. We joked that she would have to ice her toes when we got home later that evening. The first part of the hike was great. Just as the ranger said, it was an easy trail in the beginning. Then we hit the strenuous part. I don't have carriers for the kids so we were having to carry Kaleb the entire way. Kaiya was a champ and hiked about 1/3-1/2 of it by herself. And believe it or not - not a peep of whining the entire hike from her. I was so proud of her.

We kept pushing on... but you can see from the pictures, it was an uphill climb. We were determined to make it to the top. Because by the time you reach a certain point, you just have to keep going. While you have no idea how much further it is, you don't want to turn back and then find out you were just 100 feet away from the top. So we pushed through the pain. We were passed multiple times by men jogging up the mountain. WHAT? Crazy intense training.

As no reflection on the type of aunt Ruthie is, I have to mention that she did drop Kaiya on her head. So... as a result, Kaiya wasn't about to let Aunt Ruthie carry her again on this hike. Lucky Aunt Bekah was given the duty. In this picture below, I think Kaleb must be praying to God that she doesn't drop him either.

But it was so worth it in the end. We finally made it to the top and got some great pictures. We could actually see the Charlotte cityscape that was over 30 miles away.
Yes, folks... she made it to the top in her slippers...

It was great exercise... and I can't wait to go explore another hike close to us later this week. My friend Connie is flying out for a visit... so I plan to subject her to similar torture. Only... she won't be wearing slippers... And I found a hiking child backpack carrier thing for $5 at a yardsale on Saturday. So at least Kaleb will be strapped on my back. Cause seriously... I couldn't raise my arms above my shoulders for like a week after lugging him up that mountain.

And on a side note -- Is anyone else annoyed to see a Presidential Address on schedule tonight instead of American Idol? Seriously...

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IKEA

Yesterday was the grand opening for Charlotte's new IKEA store. We weren't brave enough to go yesterday, but ventured out this evening. When we walked into the store we saw a guy drawing charicatures for free. There was a decent line, but it only took him about 5 minutes per drawing so we decided to wait and get the kids done. They turned out adorable; I'm so glad we waited!

Mary Poppins:Jerry Rice:

Forgot to post this one earlier today -- this is Kaleb on the ride home from the crazy jumping place... Sweet boy.

Sports Connection

Today is my day off so it seemed like a good idea to do something fun with the kids. We met another mom from church at Sports Connection where they have 10 large inflatable jumping, climbing, bouncing things. Kaleb was a little nervous at first, but once he saw Kaiya in action, there was no stopping him. They are sound asleep right now. Totally wiped out from all the fun. The best $5 I've spent in awhile.

Would you rather...

Our pastor's wife did a "would you rather" post on her blog and I thought it made for a great post. So I'm gonna do it here occasionally too. My readers have been awfully quiet lately... :) My site meter tells me you are out there. So this is your chance to come out of the shadows!

Would you rather have a day of rain or snow?

I don't know if it comes from being raised on the Oregon Coast, but I'm partial to rain. I love the sound it makes falling on the house and the splashing sound cars make as they drive past. When we lived in Florida last year, I loved how you could count on that 3 p.m. thunderstorm every day. I have a precious memory of taking Kaiya outside during one of these rainstorms and splashing in the driveway and street. It was such a downpour, the drops were huge and there was a mini-river gushing down the street. Kaiya, Tony and I splashed each other, kicked water in the air, danced and got drenched. Our neighbors probably thought we were crazy, but I'm convinced Kaiya thought we were the coolest parents ever. And really... these were our neighbors.

So... let them call us weird. :)

I can't argue, snow is beautiful - at first. Then it just gets cold and messy. So for me... I'd take a rainy day over a snowy day. How about you?

My Prince Charming

Had a fun conversation with Kaiya last night that makes a perfect Valentine's Day post. I was working on some hair bows and she was standing on her stool next to me watching. All of a sudden, she put her arm around my shoulder and leaned over in front of my face. She used her other hand and turned my face towards hers. She cocked her next to the side and attempted to give me an open mouth, make-out kiss. When I realized what she was doing, I gently stopped her (so I didn't hurt her feelings for rejecting her kiss). But she wasn't deterred and she tried again. I giggled and asked her who she has seen kiss that way.

"Cinderella and da Prince!" she replied. (Like - duh mama.)

Me: Oh... well, Kaiya, that's because they are married. Only married people kiss that way.

Kaiya: You married Mama?

Me: Yep. Who do you think I should kiss like that?

Kaiya: Your Prince Charming!

Me: And who is my Prince Charming?

Kaiya: Daddy!!!

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She's right! Tony is certainly my Prince Charming! I admire so many things about him. He is consistent, confident, our protector, my logical/rational thinker who balances out my emotional thinking. He is a dreamer and has great vision. He is an awesome chiropractor - being used by God to change people's lives. Happy Valentine's Day!

Deal with it

Recent conversation in the car:

Kaiya: I'm hungry!

Me: You're hungry?

Kaiya: Yes, how you going to deal wit dat, mama?

Wordless Wednesday - Kaleb's first big boo-boo

Hide and Seek

Saturday night we played a family game of hide and seek. This is the first time we've hid with Kaiya and so it was good learning for her. She learned some strategy tonight. The girls challenged the boys to a game and we learned pretty quickly that the boys were at a slight disadvantage because of Kaleb. :) So Tony and I then just took turns hiding with Kaiya.

Kaiya and I were pretty awesome and Tony was a big cheater. Kaiya and I were hiding in the shower behind the curtain and I could hear Tony coming upstairs, trying to coax Kaiya to reveal our location. I'm holding her and whispering to her not to answer any of Daddy's questions. We hear, "Kaiya! Do you want a snack?" I feel her shake her head no. "Kaiya! Do you want some stickers?" More head shaking. He comes into our bedroom and is much closer to us and says, "Kaiya! I have stickers here, do you want some?" She screams, "No Daddy! I hiding!" Drat!

Then, during our last round, Tony and Kaiya were hiding and I went off to find them. I'm searching everywhere and thinking that they have come up with a pretty good spot. After searching upstairs, I came downstairs and say, "Daddy's a cheater!" I hear laughter coming from the family room (which was supposed to be our counting location). And a big "gotcha!" They totally went back there after I left to find them. They were quite proud of the trick they played on Mama. Saturday night fun!

Imaginon

We have a fantastic children's library here in Charlotte. It's called Imaginon and the Children's Theatre is also housed at the same location. There is a lot of neat programs at this library and fun interactive things for the kids to do. We take a trip uptown once a month or so. And the great thing is that whatever we check out there can be returned at any library. My mom works at a library so I wanted to be sure to take her when she came for the weekend visit. Here are a couple pictures we took that weekend.

She likes boys...

You know the game... if someone squeezes just above the knee and you laugh... it means you like boys. During a tickle war the other night Tony stopped and got really serious and asked Kaiya if she liked boys. She said no right away. He explained to her what he was going to do and that if she laughed it would mean that she did like boys. She surprised us when in preparation for the tickle, she covered her mouth and eyes thinking that she could cover up a giggle. He hadn't started squeezing yet, but she was bracing for it.

She finally caved in and let one escape, but she was pretty insistent that she still didn't like boys.

I will not eat it Sam I Am --- unless Kaiya is feeding it to me...

Our vegetable the other night was asparagus. Kaleb is stubborn about this vegetable for some reason... but I'm relentless. Some night he gets his veggies first and then gets the rest of his meal. He either eats it or doesn't eat. :) And he usually puts up a fuss and then decides to go ahead and eat the green stuff. This night, however, he would have none of it. He sat in his chair while we all ate and just whined and cried. I tried feeding him with my fork. When that didn't work I cut the asparagus on my plate and tried letting him take it off my plate. Nope. Then at one point he quiets down and begins thinking about eating some. He is putting some in his mouth and then makes eye contact with me, sees me looking at him and make the most sour, disgusted face and starts gagging. Yeah -- totally faking it.

We had all finished eating so I moved closer to Kaleb to "encourage" him to eat his asparagus. Kaiya came over with her fork and said she would help Kaleb eat his 'spargus. What followed was nothing short of amazing. That little stinker ate nearly every bit of asparagus on his tray with Kaiya feeding him. And he looked like he enjoyed it too.

Newsletter video

http://www.facebook.com/v/45607974813

Tony here---Some of you wanted more info on the Gardasil newsletter. Here is a compilation of news reports on the vaccine. Sometimes I wonder how much damage will have to occur before some parents wake up about this vaccine. I am not for about any vaccine but there are certain vaccines that really get to me and this is one of them. I would not in any shape or form allow my daughter (or son) to get this. This video is long (17 minutes) but you only need to watch 2 minutes to realize what's going on.